Thursday, April 15, 2010
How to Tell if They Want a One Night Stand - 10 Subtle Surefire Signs
In this article we are going to take a quick look at the 10 simple factors you can easily identify in the body language of a potential mate to gage how pure their intentions really are..:-) Deciding between love and lust is a huge component in any new relationship, and properly measuring the level of each in a prospective partner can be the difference between saying no..and heartbreak! Read on as explore further.
Genuine Romantic Interest vs. Sexual Lust.
It can be tricky for the woman who is seeking a long-term partner as opposed to a one-night stand. How does she weed out men who are only interested in her sexually? The variations in romantic gestures are subtle in comparison to sexual body language, but as a general rule of thumb, purely sexual overtures will be more pronounced and obvious. In her book, Reading People, Jo-Ellen Dimitrius has compiled a list of body language cues that typically indicate a more purely sexual interest across both genders. Included on that list are:
o Intense eye contact (which will often shift to sexual organs, like the breasts and the genitalia, or looking the intended up and down).
o An overly exaggerated or coy smile.
o Concocted laughter
o Winking
o Licking the lips to wet them.
o Touching oneself in a flirtatious manner.
o Overtly touching one's target.
o Overt thrusting out of the chest or hips.
o Walking with a swagger (men) or swaying of the hips (women).
o Wearing of revealing clothing or excessive makeup, perfume or cologne
Which of these are you displaying when you meet someone you like? Are you giving off the proper cues...or simply sending the wrong signals yourself. What about that new partner you are interested in? What are they saying to you? All VERY important questions one NEEDS to answer when picking the right path in a relationship and beyond!
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