Seduction is a pretty funny topic of conversation at times. As men, we all know that there is a part of us that wants to be able to seduce beautiful women, but admitting it is usually not considered politically correct. Well, time to throw that out the window. Seriously. Be a man and fess up to the fact that being able to make a woman want to get sexual with you IS something that you would like to be able to succeed at.
Don't assume that women are not into the idea of being seduced by a man. Just take a look at all of the romance novels that sell like hot cakes and the cheesy movies where the dashing stranger always ends up enticing the woman. There is a clue there and it should be pretty evident. Women want to be seduced by the RIGHT guy.
So, how do you become the right guy?
Here are 3 tips to seduce a woman and SUCCEED:
1. She cannot think of you as being just the nice guy that she met.
When you come across like this, you are going to get immediately put up in the friend zone with a woman and that means one thing. No sex. Now, this does not mean that you need to be the complete opposite of a nice guy and turn into a total jerk. But, you have to separate yourself from the guys that act like total pushovers around women.
2. She needs to feel a certain air of mystery around you.
Don't assume that you have to lay down your entire life story to make a woman feel connected to you. You don't and you really shouldn't. Not when you first meet a woman and you want to make her feel sexually attracted to you. That is what a relationship is for, and it's much more effective to let things flow at a more natural pace. Plus, you need to focus on building sexual attraction with her, and going into way too much detail is NOT going to make that happen.
3. You have to establish yourself as being an alpha male.
Most women will actually get turned off when they meet a guy that lacks the alpha male traits that they find so attractive. Being submissive, letting her control the entire interaction, these are all things to avoid. You don't have to be totally dominant, but you really need to establish that you ARE an alpha male and not some total pansy that is going to wait for her approval on EVERYTHING.
Seducing a woman is an art, and most guys never even really take the first few steps that are needed to properly seduce a woman. If you are serious about seduction, and you want to be able to successfully get a woman in bed, then you need to start from square one. Otherwise, you could easily end up amongst the throngs of men that try to buy their way into a woman's favor, or end up going around trying cheesy routines to try and manipulate a woman into sleeping with you.
Don't assume that seduction is just about sex, because it is NOT. If you make the mistake of assuming that it's all about sex, I can almost guarantee you that you will NEVER be able to walk up to a woman and in only a short time be able to entice her into your bedroom.
Here are 5 shockingly simple tips to get her in YOUR bed:
1. You need to touch her on an emotional level before anything physical.
Trying to just use physical attraction to get a woman into bed is going to be a tough one at best. Women are sexually attracted on an emotional level much more so than a physical one, so this can work out well, as long as you focus on touching on those emotions.
2. To seduce a woman, you need to possess confidence no matter what.
Let's face the facts here. When it comes down to sex, women ARE the ones that are usually in control. You want to sleep with her and all she has to do is say NO, and your confidence and ego can crumble into little pieces. To really become successful in seduction, you need to be able to let the NO's have little effect on your ego. Otherwise, you will just shy away with the first rejection.
3. You have to do the dance.
By this I mean, most of the time you are not going to be able to get her into your bed in 5 minutes. Sure, there might be an occasion where that happens, but usually you have to kind of woo her into your bedroom and that means that you have to go through the motions. Do not be impatient or try too hard, or else the only one that is going to be in your bed is...YOU!
4. You need to build a foundation of physical attraction and BUILD on it.
I hope the first tip did not make you think that there has to be no physical attraction, because there does. The thing is, you need to be able to build on physical attraction in increasing amounts. She might think that you are cute, but that alone probably will not make her want to sleep with you. However, if you do little things along the way that trigger those sexual feelings in her, she just might not be able to keep her hands off of you.
5. You have to be respectful of her.
If you want to be the kind of guy that women desire to sleep with, then you have to show them a little respect. I know some guys that can get a girl to go to bed with them once, but never a second time. Trust me, it's much better to get the second and third time than to only get one chance with her.
How about BOTH? Remember that infamous episode of "Sex & The City" when Kim Catrell's character "Samantha" tried to return her VIBRATOR to The Sharper Image and she got into a big debate with the Sharper Image sales guy about it being a back massager and not a sex toy. Turns out they were both right!
For decades, women have been buying "back massagers" from the Sears & Roebuck catalog! Mommy's little helper came in the form of a valium and the "Oster" massagers.
Modern women can buy a "back massager" at Walgreens, CVS and pretty much any other local neighborhood drug store. I remember buying my Hitachi Magic Wand at a local Walgreens about 20 years ago and it's still going strong. I bought it at the drug store thinking I was being discreet. (I was 21 at the time... so naive.) I didn't realize that the entire FREE WORLD used their back massagers for other areas and not just their tense neck or back. What can I say, I was a late bloomer.
The Hitachi Magic Wand is likely the most INFAMOUS back massager. Every lesbian I have ever met and talked about sex toys with has mentioned the magical electric wand from Hitachi - often referred to as the "magic wand." I always joke that lesbians KNOW THEIR TOYS! And, here in the Bay Area, where we do our Bliss Pleasure Parties, we meet lots of gay women who are not too shy to share their favorite sex toys with us!
The Magic Wand is a beautiful toy and it is also a FAB back massager. It plugs into the wall so it's very reliable. No batteries to wear down or that die on you at that oh so important moment! Seriously, it's a great massager that also works very well for masturbation and partner sex. It's not the sexiest vibrator nor is it the prettiest, but I can tell you it's VERY reliable and will get the job done EVERY TIME.
But, here is some really good news I am so excited to share with all of you. The company that makes the Hitach Magic Wand now ships a new cordless and waterproof wand called the Mystic Wand. I think it's PERFECTION and am so excited that my customers seem to agree. I have been showing it for about a month now at our home parties and everyone who touches it falls in love, too.
The new Mystic Wand has this yummy skin on the wand/bulb that is called "skin safe silicone" so this vibrator can be used all over the body, even on sensitive skin! Massage aching shoulders and soothe sore necks, then guide the rounded head to more intimate areas of your body for some truly stunning sensations! The flexible neck allows this massager to be used at any angle, hitting sweet spots you never even knew you had!
This new "back massager" is like the Hitachi Magic Wand's sweeter, sexier and more portable version. It takes 4 double AA batteries and has PLENTY of power for those of you who like the stronger toys. It has 6 speeds, so something for everyone! And, it's CORDLESS so much easier to share with your partner and use together.
Both wands are made by one of my favorite sex toy manufacturers, Vibratex. Vibratex is the manufacturer of the Original Rabbit Pearl - the "rabbit" that Charlotte from "Sex & The City" became addicted to. Vibratex makes great quality toys and this new cordless "back massager" is at the top of their TOP 3 Sex Toys, in my opinion. They have a knack for making toys that endure, are made with women in mind and they also give lots of thought to the ergonomics. (Plus their sex toys have a 1 year warranty!)
Want one of your own? Tell Santa what a good girl you've been! Add it to your wish list and tell Santa he can use the coupon code "WAND" to get a FREE bullet with your purchase of a "Back Massager"!
1) Is it OK to think about sex? Is it OK to read about sex? Is it OK to have sex? Just for pleasure?
Sex is a good thing. Sex is legitimate as long as all the people involved are doing it from their own free will. Sex is physical, emotional and spiritual bonding between two or more loving people. Almost every human being is having sex many times in his life times. It is normal and natural activity for adults. It is ok to think about sex as well as to think about love, and to think about babies. In order to have good relationships, and good and satisfying sex life it will be good if everyone will know more about sexuality, so reading about sexuality is very good. Sex for pleasure can do many good things for humanity, relief stress and make more people on this planet happy.
2) Is it OK to buy and use sex toys?
Sex toys are TOYS. These toys usage is to increase sexual pleasure alone or with a partner (or
some partners). Sex toys only purpose is to increase pleasure of men and human. It doesn't hurt anyone.
3) Is it OK to masturbate with sex toys?
Masturbation is making love with yourself, it is pleasuring yourself, it relief stress and makes people smile more. Masturbate with sex toys, is good as masturbate without sex toys, as long as you pleasure yourself, you can do it with your hand, you can do it with a back massager and you can do it with sex toys. Whatever makes you feel good with yourself, and doesn't hurt anybody else is a good thing.
4) Is it OK to use sex toys when making love with my partner?
It is wonderful; whatever makes you both feel good with your love making is very good for your sex life and for your relationships.
5) What is the best sex toy?
There is no such thing as best sex toy for everybody. Everyone is a little bit different than the other with different things he likes. There are good and quality sex toys for woman and there are for man. There are good sex toys for straight couples as well as for gays and lesbians. There are amazing clitoris stimulation vibrators and there are G--Spot specific vibrators and dildos.
Sex toys are great adventure, buy and have lots of fun with them.
