You want to spice up your sex life? Learn the art of talking dirty to your boyfriend and find out what turns him on. By talking dirty I don't mean degrading them, it simply means being more vocal during sex. It's very easy to learn to talk dirty without feeling dirty. This is usually only a problem for women but men seems to have the natural ability to talk dirty and make it sound smooth and sexy.
If you are one of the women who have trouble talking dirty the cause is mostly likely a result of what you were taught as a child and the views that society has on sex. Talking dirty to your boyfriend is a natural and normal part of a sexual relationship between and man and a woman.
Forget everything you were ever taught as a young child you are no longer a little girl you are a grown woman with sexual desires and talking dirty to your boyfriend is a great way to spice up your sex life!
The first thing you must do is establish your dirty talk boundaries. If certain words offend you, you have to tell your boyfriend that otherwise he has no way of knowing. Once you have agreed on what works and what doesn't you are all set to talk dirty.
Don't be nervous or feel embarrassed just let the words flow naturally as if the two of you were having a normal conversation. Chances are you have been together long enough to know what turns him on and what doesn't. Stick to the things you know will turn him on and let the talk flow naturally. Forcing the words to come out if you're not comfortable saying them will make both of you feel awkward.
In the beginning it is sometimes best to just stick with the sweet nothings and the compliments you already know these work well and gradually add a few new words or phrases each time you have sex.
Before you know it the two of you will be enjoying all the dirty talk you can handle. Most importantly remember how simple it is to turn a man on and not forgetting to respect each other and have fun!
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