How to Find the G Spot after Frustration

"Where is the G spot exactly?" You often hear this question asked and because not everyone is successful in explaining how to locate it and use it to bring about a G spot orgasm, the G spot is almost reaching 'mythical' proportions. But make no mistake about it, it does exist.

Step 1

Release yourself from any 'magical expectations'. Think of finding where your G spot is as a sexual exploration. If you reach an orgasm, so be it but don't be frustrated if you don't. Beside, focusing on the 'goal' will only make reaching it harder (as opposed to enjoying the journey itself).

Step 2

Play with yourself first. Locating where the G spot is difficult if you're not turned on because part of this sexual exploration takes place first in the mind. Furthermore, when you're turned on, the supple area that marks where the G spot is starts to grow bigger and sturdier because of the rush of blood to it, making its location easier. So look at some x-rated movie or magazines and do your best to get yourself wet.

Step 3

Lie back on soft pillows. Reach down between your legs and slowly insert a finger inside you (make sure you cut your nails before you do this!). If you still feel dry, use a lubricant. Just when you're in around about your second knuckle, bend your finger like a hook. Feel around a bit with your fingertip. You should locate a slight engorged, ridged area.

Step 4

Once you locate where the G spot is, treat it like your clitoris as it needs constant stimulation. You can tap at it repeatedly or draw small circles around it. You can also apply pressure and 'flick it' repeatedly.

Step 5

If you feel that using your own hand is awkward, try using a sex toy. There are plenty of vibrators out thee specifically made to locate where the G spot is. Again, arouse yourself first and put some lube on the vibrator too before you insert it with the tip facing the upper wall of your vagina. Once your G spot is located, experiment with the different pressures that the sex toy provides.

Step 6

In general, most women claim to respond well to firm pressure applied on their G spots. As such, using your own finger, the finger of your partner, or a toy, make sure you explore the different motions, pressures and movements you can subject your G spot to.